If porn was once fun but now is a destructive obsession, hypnotherapy could offer the solution.
In the past year I have seen porn addicts for hypnotherapy in Reading, Oxford, London, Wallingford and Thame. It’s a growing problem and I’m pleased to say that all of them (bar one exception) have ended by stopping the habit, the addiction. Perhaps it’s time for you to let go of porn addiction too.
I also offer hypnotherapy online for porn addiction, using vsee, zoom or whatsap. Please feel free to get in touch for more details as to how this works.
If you’d like to stop your own addiction to porn then read on. Hypnotherapy really could help you!
The DSM V doesn’t yet recognise porn addiction but most therapists do acknowledge it as being akin to a chemical addiction to any known addictive substance. The compulsions connected with this behaviour are strong.
As with any other addiction, the consequences can be severe on a psychological and relational level.
Relationships can be destroyed through the addiction – either because the partner discovers the habit and interprets it as being a form of infidelity / rejection or because the user of porn can suffer from such feelings of inadequacy – combined with an increased desensitisation to sexual activity – that sexual dysfunctions can follow. If you feel as if these things are beginning to happen with you then it’s best to act now, before things decline any further.
Some of my clients experience erectile dysfunction because ‘normal’ sex comes to appear less than satisfactory when compared to online porn and because their feelings of guilt and inadequacy impair their ability to focus on enjoying intimacy with their partners.
Others can suffer because they satisfy themselves through porn and then have nothing left for their partners. That first unexpected experience of impotence can hit them hard, so to speak, and leave them lacking in confidence into the future.
Another potential problem is that people who hurry to finish their use of porn can literally teach themselves to ejaculate prematurely. I don’t think I need to explain how that could begin to become a problem. I see several men a year for whom premature ejaculation, acquired through the use of porn, has become a problem. Finish too soon by yourself and you’re training yourself to do the same with a partner.
Concentration and focus can suffer, leading to problems at work.
Perhaps you will already know much of this, which is why you’re here, looking for help. Porn begins as an enjoyable way to relieve stress. In time it can become a stressful problem in itself.
You can, however, learn to let it go. Finding different ways of managing stress, when combined with new ways of dealing with urges, will be crucial to your success. You can let go of your dependence on porn. I’m here to help you.
All I ask is that you definitely want to stop the habit. If that motivation is there then we’ll work together in order to ensure that you will.
When pornography becomes more of a problem than a pleasure hypnotherapy could help to provide the solution. Perhaps that time is already here and now. Why else would you be here. It’s time to own the problem and to accept that help is required in order to put it away, for good.
I’ve helped people in Oxford, London, Reading, Wallingford and Thame to bin the abuse of porn. If you’re truly ready to join them then you only need to get in touch and we can discuss how to get things moving. Email me on paul@resolvedhypnotherapy.co.uk or call on 07786 123736. Alternatively, simply use the form at the bottom of the page.
I look forward to hearing from you.
Porn addicts are less than adept at managing their own emotions
Porn use is extremely widespread in men. If, however, it was no longer to be available then it wouldn’t really be a problem for the vast majority of them. It’s a pleasure, not a necessity or an addiction.
Many people who become addicted to porn already have problems with processing emotions. The use of porn and the consequences which follow from it can increase their inability to regulate emotions in a healthy fashion. Pornography becomes the vehicle through which they come to manage their stress, anxiety and, sometimes, depression.
In such people it then becomes, over time, a problem in itself. Porn use will generally lead to shame, guilt, self-recrimination and a general feeling of worthlessness. Deteriorating relationships with partners worsen an already difficult relationship with the self.
The feelings and experiences described above can lead to problems such as anxiety, depression, self-harm and substance abuse.
The excessive use of internet porn, therefore, can quickly escalate into a situation where every aspect of a person’s life is negatively affected.
You don’t have to suffer from all this anymore. I’ve worked with so many people facing just the same problems and if they can achieve their goals then so can you.
Hypnotherapy for porn addiction could set you free
There is, however, hope. When one comes to the conclusion that the use of porn is more of a cost than a benefit the possibility of change opens up.
Hypnotherapy can help you to let go of porn as a substitute for healthy relationships with the self and with significant others. Hypnotherapy can help to reduce and eliminate depression and anxiety.
Hypnotherapy can help you to manage the urge to resort to what s a thoroughly unsatisfactory way of relating to sex, yourself, others around you and your own emotions.
Hypnotherapy can begin to reverse the effects of a past which may have contributed to that sense of alienation which often leads to a need for sexual satisfaction found online.
I have helped others to overcome their addiction to porn and I could help you. If you’d like to learn more then please do consider contacting me. Call on 07786123736 / 01183280284 / 01865600970. Email on paul@resolvedhypnotherapy.co.uk. Perhaps it would be simplest to use the contact form below, in the footer of this page.
Best wishes
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